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Monday, August 16, 2010

monolog about love


my status in Facebook
about 22 hours ago

who is agree with me? when it comes to love, there is no easy answer. trust me. out there were millions of love quotes saying that this those these bla bla bla but no one can figure the right and exact answer. which one will you choose? the ones who loves you but either you loved him too and did not love him? or going back to the one you love either he loved you or might not love you the way you loved him?

one of my friends responds this: after what we have been through, it is better to stay with the one we love because the decision is stick into our hands. if we stay with the who love us, any time he can walk away from our life. from my own experienced, if he is in loved with us for real, he will stick to us no matter what because his life is you. he only has you in his life, means he is devoted to you. so be grateful with the ones who are really into you because you probably will never meet the same guy like him. I mean for an example, you love A but apparently you and A were not meant to be together, so you fall in love again with B. deep down inside, yeah you love B but B is no A. there will be no A in your life again.

and one of my friends responds this: I am gonna stay with someone who loves me, because I am willing to develop love afterwards. I don't want to love someone who did not love me. that is not gonna promise me anything. I kinda agreed with this quote because yet it is true to some persons in this life. but there is also people who did not have any luck when it comes to love. for an example, me again. I could not agree more that love is complicated. it is more than a feeling that we are allowed them to grow either fast or slow in our heart.

love makes your heartbeats faster than before. your adrenaline rush is higher than before. and yet will turn you into a new person when you are totally crazy in love. but is it worth? is it worth when he broke your heart? is it true that we can say it will gives us an experience in our life and promised that we will never suffer again when it comes to love? no one can promise such a thing...

he said he loves me (since 9 years ago)
he said I am his first love (since 9 years ago)
he proposed me (since 9 months ago)

but now

I think he just did...

he turned himself down
he shut himself down
he walked away
he left me...

I did that 9 years ago
I left him...

after all that,
I just realized and accepted...
he broke my heart.

is he really fall in love with you?



xoxo


love is more complicated than we think...

17 COMMENTS:

miss lily said...

hi....been ur silent reader before this....

actually, i selalu ingat pesanan my mom...apabila mencari pasangan hidup, carilah lelaki yg menyayangi kita, bkn yg kita sayang sbb apabila kita pilih lelaki yg kita sayang, kemungkinan utk dia cari yg lain sgt besar...

yes love is complicated, tp kalau kita tau mcm mane nak deal dgnnya, so it won't be complicated anymore...

anyway, i pun still single dan masih memcari2 pasangan hidup...mari cari sama2...:P

Shahira said...

hi miss lily.
thanks for being my silent reader.

i'm now in the stage two: the actual realization.
byk lg steps kene get thru to move on.
but hey i'm strong enough :)

yeah for now let it be this way.
thanks for the advice.

misi mencari cinta berjalan!

No-Nothing said...

hi...ur new silent reader here...

kinda like dis article of urs...eventhough i'm not really pro at dis situation..and not even gud when its about relationship and heart...but dis kind or issue is really my thing...(simply say,i like dis kind of issue)

yeah..there's too many quotes bout love...some,really true but some kinda not related to us...or anybody else...

one thing dat i believe its true...
"love is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship...its not how much love you have in the beginning, but how much love you built till the end..."

you think?

Shahira said...

hye dear.
thanks for ur comment.
yeah for me this rship is not for us to find a very perfect man or the right prince charming but what is the most important is the chemistry between the couple and how they can relate their chemistry into one rship that will last till the end.

let's hope the best.
:)

lady mermalade said...

hye there! ive just followed ur blog :)
n i wanna know ur fb :)
well..i think we can be friend as i go through ur blog,i saw that we are having something same :)
we have same hobby which is photography rite?

No-Nothing said...

dats soo twue...i noe we r on da same mind here...well,dats shahirawati for ya...

da ryte person...or prince charming..is a fantasy of people who wish to have someone special dats really in da ryte chemistry wif them...
yet...we wont find any without da ryte rship...

one way or another...people will someday met their ryte person...spt mana wanita dijadikan dr tulang rusuk lelaki...then u r already belongs wif someone...

whether u r strong enough to face all da hardship b4 met him/her..its all up to you...

n 4 u..i noe u r a strong person..stay strong dear...

Shahira said...

hye there lady mermalade.
thanks for being my follower!
really appreciate that.

yeah i really into photography.
hihi always berangan nak ambil sijil/dip/deg in photography studies if ada.
one day.
:)

u just gv me ur email.
them i will add u ok?

keep in touch darl.

Shahira said...

thanks for ur advice miss no-nothing.
btw have u find someone?
i meant ur soulmate?
heee lets love finds us :)

anyway can i have ur name.
hee senang nak call nt.

i hv met mcm2 lelaki.
but this rship yg paling menggugat kesbrn i paling tahap tertinggi kot.
guys will always be guys.

No-Nothing said...

yeah...guys will always be guys...
n sorry to say...i'm oso a guy...am i different from all da guys dat suck...only u can determine dat...
eventhough i think u knew me already...

i'm juz a silent reader n sometime giv opinion...not every one is da ryte one but sometime it can help others...hehe...trying to stay low here...

wish to know me?

Shahira said...

wow ur comment is defensive.
i thought u r female/woman based on ur blog i visited.
heee sorry about that.

well, u kinda interesting to know.
y not i think we could be friends or we're already friends.
i don't know that.
:)

No-Nothing said...

dont mind dat...eventhough i'm a guy doesn't mean i'll back them up...coz we both know how suck guys can be...ryte?
sorry to say guys,i'm more to da ladies side..

yeah we're fwen..and thanks 4 visiting my blog...its new so there's not many interesting posts in there...

Shahira said...

i'm curious to know who are you actually.
mind to reveal urself?

No-Nothing said...

dont mind actually...its juz dat i dont want to reveal here...got any idea how?

Shahira said...

u can email me.
shahirarosli@yahoo.com

i'm waiting.

No-Nothing said...

juz done describing myself in da email...hope u wont be disappoint...

lady mermalade said...

well,here's my email..angleansara@yahoo.com

Shahira said...

done!
:D