that bitch/bastard! I treated them like gold! this is the most critical stage - bitterness. you list all their annoying traits that you once thought was actually cute. who actually uses the word "poppy"? at this point instead of wasting your day in bed watching old reruns of Maury Povich you get out of bed and dress to impress. now that you look good and feel good you can actually say and believe, "if they don't want me, that is their problem, not mine." over time you will start missing them less and love yourself more. keep yourself busy with new hobbies, school, work and friends. there is no point feeling sorry for yourself when there is a whole world out there waiting for you with plenty of new and exciting people to meet.
that is me, in the stage 4. yeah. I like the new me. new fashion in style. new hair cut. new environment. pray hard insya Allah. I do not longer relate myself with Celine Dion song "All By Myself". duhhhh!
"And when you're gone he might regret it, think about the love he once had"
- Madonna, Express Yourself
:) :) :)